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		<title>First You Learn the Lesson&#8230;.Then You Teach</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 02:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life is full of lessons. Every day I learn at least one thing that I didn&#8217;t know the day before. I would say we probably all do. The past 5 years or so have been a time of tremendous learning and growth for me. I&#8217;ve bought a house, gotten married (yes, in that order &#8211;...]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/22/27210904_74c9387b9a_m.jpg" alt="" hspace="10" vspace="10" width="240" height="181" />Life is full of lessons. Every day I learn at least one thing that I didn&#8217;t know the day before. I would say we probably all do.</p>
<p>The past 5 years or so have been a time of tremendous learning and growth for me. I&#8217;ve bought a house, gotten married (yes, in that order &#8211; which I highly recommend!), become a full-time entrepreneur, worked hard to weed out the negative people in my life, and reconnected with some wonderful old friends. I&#8217;ve discovered a rich and fascinating online world, and made some really great new friends here.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like I&#8217;ve been climbing up a slope of learning these past few years. The path was really steep sometimes. Occasionally I stumbled, even fell. Other times it leveled out; it was pretty smooth sailing. I&#8217;m grateful to have had plenty of help on my journey, from incredible friends, and of course my family.</p>
<p>Now I feel like I&#8217;ve come to the top of the mountain. I can see pretty clearly what lies ahead of me, and more importantly, what I need to do to get there. As I begin to travel down the other side of the mountain, I am able to release some of my new knowledge as I go. This is happening in all aspects of my life right now.</p>
<p>Professionally, I have the amazing opportunity to pass on my more than 18 years of media industry experience to young people who are just starting out in their careers. Now that I am happily married, I find myself passing on advice to my single girlfriends about dating, finding the person that&#8217;s right for you, and being happy in a relationship. And, now that I&#8217;ve weeded out the bad energy in my life, I&#8217;m able to help others to do the same.</p>
<p>I know that once I am through this teaching phase and at the bottom of the mountain again, I will climb the next mountain of learning. There are many more mountains to climb, many more challenges to face. I am happy to know that I&#8217;ve made it this far, and that I have something to offer as a result. And I am excited to know there&#8217;s much more to come.</p>
<p><em>Photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/discarnate/" target="_blank">Matt Phillips</a> on Flickr.</em></p>
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