My Dad is a pretty cool guy.

He’s one of the youngest-at-heart people I know. We have a running joke in our family – when talking about Dad’s age (71), we say he’s “Older than Dirt”. He thinks it’s hilarious. I think it’s ironic. Dad may be in his 70’s, but he sure doesn’t act like it. He’s in better shape than I am, and spends many of his retired days fixing, building, mowing, climbing ladders, pressure washing, and any other physically demanding domestic chore you can imagine. He also spends much of his time with his grandsons on the floor wrestling, play fighting and horsing around just like he did with us when we were kids. When he’s not doing that, he’s traveling around the world with Mom.

My Dad enjoys life. He doesn’t act old because he doesn’t FEEL old. He doesn’t FEEL old because he doesn’t let himself have that attitude. Whether he’s pressure washing the driveway, traveling the world with my Mom or hugging his grandkids, every moment is treasured.

My Dad is a pretty accomplished guy.

Dad was a member of the Canadian Armed Forces for 36 years. As any of you who are Base Brats like me will know, this means that basically your life as a kid was dictated by your Dad’s job. We moved 5 times, I went to 3 different elementary schools and 2 different high schools, in all corners of the country.

Dad was really really good at his job. So good, in fact, that in 1985 he became a Member of the Order of Military Merit, which is like the military equivalent of the Order of Canada.

My Dad worked hard through his entire career. He accomplished many great things, and made positive change in the environments he was in. He was a good leader – his colleagues looked up to him. He set the example and was rewarded for it. He never tried too hard – he simply knew what needed to be done and then proceeded to do it better than most. He never did anything FOR recognition. He did it because he cared about people and about his country.

My Dad is a pretty devoted guy.

My parents will be happily married 48 years this coming September. That’s quite an accomplishment in itself! Due to the nature of his job, Dad was away quite a bit – sometimes for 6 months at a time. He was in a pretty remote location, so we had limited contact – once in a while via HAM radio, but mostly we communicated by sending audio cassette tapes back and forth in the mail. Even though his job was very busy and very important, without fail, Dad would send us tapes, once a week or so. Much of the time he’d just be talking about us, what we were doing in school, how baseball and swimming lessons were going, that sort of thing. But it was something we knew we could rely on.

My Dad, even though he is always busy with lots and lots of important things, ALWAYS, 100% of the time, has time for his family. Family is the most important thing. Hands down. When he was home, he was entirely focused on us. The most fun was always the day Dad came home.

Thank you Dad, for teaching me three very important lessons; to appreciate every moment of life, to not be afraid to work hard for the greater good, and that family is central to everything.

Happy Father’s Day!
Love, Suze (xoxo)

(PS My Dad is the one who gave me the nickname “Suze”…just so ya know)

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I’ve written before about the importance of balance between family, work, social life, and alone time. We all know how vitally important it is. Yet we continue to fail remarkably well at it. We go and go and go until we literally collapse, or have an accident, or get sick. Yet once we’re better, despite our good intentions, we get back on our horse and do it all over again.

My work life is demanding that I be 150% on top of my game right now. In a little under 5 weeks we are launching a huge project. We’ve got a whole bunch of other projects on the go this summer too. Oh, and we’re producing a TV show to boot (coming soon to an Interwebz near you).

I know I know – it’s not about how busy you are. What it is about, is I’m not sure how I’m going to manage to eek out my balance in the next few weeks. There probably won’t be much, but I have to carve out what I can.

I’ve had some people ask me why I’m not going to Podcasters Across Borders this weekend. It would have been a great chance to catch up with some of my online friends that I don’t get to see that often. It would have been fun to hang out and chat and explore new opportunities with each other. It’s only 2 hours’ drive from me. But, no offense to you beautiful people, it’s not part of my balance this weekend.

What is part of my balance this weekend is the fact that my godson is turning 5 years old. And he’s having a pirate party. And I get to go on a real pirate ship and wear a patch on my eye and say “Arrrr, matey” and have fake sword battles and tickle fights.

What is also part of my balance is celebrating Father’s Day with my favourite Dads. My own Dad, of course. My brother. My husband (doting “father” to our 3 furry creatures). We’re all going to have brunch together, and spend some quality time sharing food and stories and being a family.

And my final bit of balance, of course has to do with music. Tonight I’m going to a church. At that church, will be what promises to be a magical evening with one of my favourite bands, Great Lake Swimmers. It will be a couple of hours of peace and music and good energy.

That’s my weekend prescription – fun with kidlets, laughs with family, and peace through music.

Enjoy your time, whatever you decide to do this weekend. And don’t forget to find your balance, even if it’s just for a few moments.

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